You stated in your first post that your husband thought you should have gone back to work after the first year.......

Did you mean a year after your son was born or a year after he died?

It may actually be REALLY good for you to go back to work and make new friends/put your mind on something else.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction