Quote: If her behavior was as you've stated above, then her actions were deplorable. She DOES know better, she's been on the BB long enough to know that she crossed the line...but CHOSE to do so anyway.
I don't know about "deplorable", but I didn't like it. I guess it's frustrating that I'm still feeling like she's monitoring my every move and getting upset every time she doesn't like something. We lost power at work one day last week, and I soon got a voice mail that sounded hateful questioning why I'd signed-off IM. She's made snide comments about my going to the dog training club or dog shows, etc. It feels like she's recruited a team of people to keep track of me at times.
I understand that she's hurting, but it's very difficult for me to not feel that same "controlled" feeling I've felt for a long time.
Quote: I ache for Pam and the pain that she continues to inflict upon herself by her inability to draw upon the emotional and intellectual strength, that I know she has, to deal with this heartbreaking situation in a mature and self elevating manner.
She doesn't believe me, but it hurts me as well. During our marriage, it's been very difficult to see a person who's always depending upon someone else. It's seems like every time something doesn't go the way she'd like, she becomes the victim. It seems like things always become somebody else's fault.
Quote: This is a difficult time for Pam. This is the closing of the door on a huge chapter in her life, she just hasn't seen ahead far enough yet to know that there IS life beyond her relationship with you, and very possibly a more satisfying and happier one then she'd ever have imagined possible. T2
I feel like P has always let too much of herself be defined by who she's with.
I'd say that it doesn't get any more satisfying or happier than with me, but you guys know me too well!
