Now I am learning more and that this has been going on since last winter. I don;t think sex was until spring. it is like he is leading a double like. When i mentioned it he said "yes",like no big deal. She's enfold hm i her life and community (and he did go to daughter's wedding so now he knows the whole family)
He's sneaking off again so I can't make plans, which I asked to do. So he tries to be there early afternoon until bedtime (which is really 9) which can be 10 on....