After talking to my friend we also cancelled our plans for a week long camping trip that we had planned to do this July. He said it might be weird depending on where the W and I were at. Also his new girlfriend (he is a widower) doesn't know anything about our sitch and he didn't want to put her in a potentially uncomfortable situation. I completely understood. Now I just have to decide if we plan a camping trip as a family (with out our friends) or not... I was thinking putting the planning in W's court and letting her decide and make the plans (which she never has in the past) if she wants to go. Does this make sense? I am not the one making the future plans. She would be.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
