Quote: Try not to be disappointed in her. I know she's upset. She had been doing better. Sometimes though, it just infuriates me when she does these things.
I understand how frustrating it must be to see someone slip into old behavior patterns but I think you should take a look at what you said here. Pam was doing much better right? People make mistakes, they slip back into old patterns, they get upset (aka backsliding).
Right now you're still pretty sensitive to all of this stuff because it is what has caused the D in your mind. I'm not saying you're not allowed to be angry... but how do you think this sensitivity affects how you react to Pam and especially her recent backslide?
