My gran by pcyhcolgoist definition is a narcistic, perhaps your mum and mr xgb?

She sounds like it your mum. We just used to laugh behind gran's back it meant we could be respectfull to her face.

Towards the end of her life we learnt to deal with her differently. Instead of asking " how are you today gran?"

We used to say

" wow how good do you look today? "

Or wow your looking really good positively glowing, how do you feel?

Often she would then tell us how well she felt.

They might work with your mum too. Tweaked to reflect current complaint?


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26