she moved out saturday morning. her parents came to take my daughte rfor the weekend as they do once in a while. I actually was doing pretty good. I helped take a few boxes of books to her dad's car that she was donating for a book sale. evidently she hasn't told him everything about what she wants a divorce. he said "I'm really am sad about this. I hope she comes to her senses soon!" I informed him that I've been trying for the past 6 months and she feels divorce is our only option. he said he knows I've been trying and it really bothers him that she is doing this. again he said that he is very sad ...then he started crying and hugged me. he told me that I am welcome at their house (out of town) anytime, the camp cottage any time, and to make sure I keep in touch because they still love me. he asked to make sure that our daughter does not get put in the middle of anything. I reassured him that i have no intentions of doing ANYTHING that would degrade or harm my daughter. he simply said " I know you wouldn't". it was very sad and I started crying a bit.... but on the other hand it made me feel better knowing that they were still rooting for me and feel the same as I do.
she had her one co-worker/friend helping. the one that she has been hanging out with for the past year..... she is one of the main ones that help convince my wife that it is "OK" to leave me because she has doubts. it was hard for me to not be an A$$ to that girl because I know some of the things she said to my wife and some of the things she helped her "get away with"
anyways......... it is what it is. she moved, i have the separation agreement signed. now I need to go refinance the house into just my name. I will also be getting divorce papers for my wife to sign.
ugh. that's going to be the hard part of letting completely go. she insists that is what she wants. and at this point..... it's probably for the best. even if she eventually had a change of heart, it would take a LONG time for me to be able to trust her with my heart again.
I have plenty to keep me busy with all the projects around the house.
me-42 w-33 d-3 together-6 m-4yr 6/1/14-w check out 6/15/14-EA? 8/1/14-mc 9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing 9/15/14-w suggest separation 10/17/14 wife is done 12/13/2014 - wife move out me file 1/1/15
