LT thanks for your feedback. I understand what you are saying, however, whichever parent is " on duty" is expected to be available and answer phone if needed. In addition I would absolutely call H if an emergency came up or I needed his help. I guess it feels to me more like a control issue, like he's trying to keep tabs on things and/or interject his opinion in my decisions when I have the kids. I might not be looking at this right- I don't know. I feel like if we D and eventually have separate relationships with other people, I'm not going to be letting him know that level of detail on a daily basis. If he wants to separate our family- that's the reality.
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown
