As you probably know, she was able to get a continuance on our D hearing yesterday. We spoke for quite a while yesterday morning, and we seemed to be getting along relatively well. Since I'm off work this week, I asked about heading to the house to sort through some of my things. She said no, not unless she's there.
Yesterday afternoon, she left about 4 or 5 angry/upset voice mails for me at work, and 6 or 8 on my cell phone. She was leaving one every 5 - 10 minutes. She's back to threatening to burn anything of mine left in the house, making snide comments about me and "my whore", etc. She apparently got upset about something to do with the attorneys, but never said what. I tried calling her back around 5:30, but didn't get an answer at home or on the cell phone.
Later in the evening, she left a voice mail that she'd settled down. She said she'd apparently left her car lights on, and couldn't even row up the windows. She asked if I could drive over and jump the car. I drove over late last night and tried, but it wouldn't start. She then told me she'd already had someone jump it, but it wouldn't start after that. I offered to give her a ride to work if she couldn't get one. I also offered to replace the battery for her since it sounds like the problem. She asked if I wanted to come into the house for a while, then proceeded to give me an R lecture when I did. I'm really sick of hearing her two-faced morality lectures.
Now, I find out that she's contacting my co-workers again to check-up on me, making sure that it really was a work requirement that I take off this week! She knows how angry this makes me! This is more of the same crap that we've gone through for the past several years, and one of the major reasons I decided to D her.
I'm very tired of hearing that I'm trying to screw her in the divorce. If I were trying to do that, I wouldn't have gotten the two continuances to give her time to prepare herself emotionally, and I would have had her either evicted from the house or required to take over the mortgage when she changed the locks. If she doesn't think the offer is fair, why take several months (and counting) to respond to it?
I realize this isn't the best place for a WAH to vent, but you guys are usually pretty good at pointing out my contribution to the problem, and at giving advice on how to change things.
