Thanks Vanilla, I didn't even think about gift for SIL, great idea. I sent her a gift card.
Yeah, the communication (email) that I initiate is like 1x per week, usually she'll send me something 1x and I'll respond back to those.
so as far as pictures, right after she left; I sent her some pictures of S5's first week of school back right after she left and she didn't respond back then. So I stopped sending, then she told me she thought I was witholding stuff about kids from her. So that's when I started sending stuff again like I said above.
Yeah, I've only sent her important stuff, bills, kids, etc.
Anyway, you're right. I need to detach more. Not only is this wearing on me, it's ruining my PMA. This is not the person I married. I'm just sick of the drama and the rejection. I don't expect her to be a W right now, but at least we need to work out the business part of separating and she is running from nearly all of it. I need to GAL. Kids come back tomorrow, so happy about that.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
