I was going to e-mail you, but when the window popped up I remembered promising CJ not to let the bb become more than the bb....
I'm writing this, rather half expecting that Pam is reading...maybe I'm projecting, but I think I'd be reading were I in her shoes...it's almost like "what's there to lose at this point?...might as well get some info somewhere"
David, do I think you've done everything to help save your M? Worked the DB process? No, I don't.
I've felt an undercurrent of just plain wanting out from day one.
Has this changed at all? If not, then why are you putting off (or should this be past tense after Sunday???) coming clean, telling Pam in no uncertain terms, Working on the settlement etc.
What is the worst thing that could happen?
I think by dragging things on and shutting Pam out of this you are making things worse...playing on all her fears, feeding mood swings, all the incessant contact from her is made worse by the looming court date...
Talk to you later, phone call coming in...gotta run
