I am mixed on this one. My wife does not tell me anything. Problem has come up a few times that kids were with wife and I was free to GAL stuff. Things came up where the kids needed someone, or even had to go to emergency room, and wife was not answering her phone because she was on a date. I pretty much asked her to do the same as your H has. She still won't so it does put a crimp on how far I feel safe going away.
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