afraid I have waited too long #4

[nit84]

Wonka,

Thank You!! I will have to send an email as she has got her own cell phone account and didn't give me the number.

I know the number though because she left her contract and invoice behind. I don't think it is a good at this point to let her know I know her number.

Here is a question though. Last Year I sent out Christmas cards to her family. I first asked a Cousin of my W before I did. The Cousin thought it was very good idea. My W asked me if I sent cards and I said Yes. She just looked at me and said nothing and I didn't continue the discussion after I said Yes.

This Cousin has unfriended me on social media back around when my W handed me the D complaint. Probably more out of support for my W than hatred for me.

Should I send cards this Year? Should I contact the Cousin again this year to see if she thinks it is still a good idea? A text between us would be private if neither of us told my W. On social media it could be seen that we are still friends.


I don't want to get into any discussion with this Cousin just a simple question like last year.

I have no way of knowing currently when but should I send the Merry Christmas then Happy New Year wishes at times that my W may be with OM?