Yeah...it is tough and your W seems to think that you're out to rip her off. That is typical for many WASes who think that they can ride on the so-called gravy train of D. Not the case. Oh well, they'll find out shortly.
The only thing I can suggest is sending out a very simple text to W wishing her a Merry Christmas and leave it at that. That is what Ms. Wonka and I did over the past 10 years...we exchanged Xmas, HBD, and HNY texts. Then our texts have become more regular this year after March 2014 with 1x per month texts initiated by Ms. Wonka.
