I agree with Sandi. You are in quasi-piecing...not fully there. To add to Sandi's comments, I would suggest that you focus on the emotional part as a way to re-attract W. Remember how you first started dating W? That slow chase. Get back to that stage.
Forget ML for a while. You need to work on re-connecting as friends, romantic partners, then go for home run.
You might want to try find sticky cards or love coupons that you can tear off and post on the bathroom mirror. I used them all the time with Ms. Wonka. In your case, I would suggest going with the tame ones and be sure they're far apart as you don't want to smother W with those gestures.
