Hi. You are not on your own Vets chime in when they have advice. The rest of us offer support. My W just called in for 10 mins to see kids and left without even giving them a hug. We have no control over other people and especially the WAS We are the very last people they will listen to This is a very long journey whatever the outcome Your whole world has been turned upside down by the one person you could rely on Its so tough it's all most impossible to deal with but we have no choice Take care and detach and PMA Re