Hi Bunches....apology accepted! I think you are doing really well. It feels frustrating now, but you will get there.

Do you have a fallback position to suggest if W sticks to her guns?

Nice to have some positive feedback from MIL, and be seen as a giver of sound guidance by BIL.

Deep breaths.......you've got this.

Toots :-)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus