Busting this Divorce - Moving Out

[HPoirot]

Thank you everyone for your support. Finally made it to today. All packed. Just waiting for w to come back with the car.

FWIW, feeling good things happened this way. If this was me from the beginning of this, I would be much more emotional. Instead, I'm just ready to go. I did clean up the house... Got rid of the cat litter... Things like that. I'll be nice leaving here. I'll mirror W and then drive off with s11. I'll get chocolate pie tonight for s11 and me. I'll stay near him when he goes to bed.

All this is the right thing to do... 60 - 90 days NC. I do not reach out at all. I do not look to see her. If I do, it's businesslike and brief. I have a lot of life changing things to do. Like Starsky said, no mental energy on W. None.

Thank you all again for your support and advice. You've all truly made a difference in my life. I'll never forget you or this forum.

Onward.