I have written and deleted about 10 posts. My past few weeks have just been a roller coaster. I think I need to just give up even pondering dating for awhile. I wonder am I just so broken from this past few years that I don't know how to deal with morons?
3 of 4 guys who I have dated since my divorce have contacted me. I hung out with the one guy for a few days. I keep forgetting he is really just a moron. And he is now unemployed, and he made it sound like he was being interviewed for jobs. When in fact he hasn't even given these imaginary interviewees his resume.....
Anyway he came up with a grand plan that I should let him (And his two kids he has every weekend) move into my office. Which I had not offered, and don't plan to rent. It is my most useful and most used room in my house. And when I humored him (Because I really was wondering how dumb he thinks I am...) and asked him how much rent he should pay for this room, he said he would help me around the house. And I told him I needed an income source more than help around the house. So he then offered to help sell my extra stuff. Which is mostly what is in my office and garage, all that I have sorted out. I bring in about $500 a month selling random things. And it is sort of a hobby, my "fun money".
So he wants to help around the house and sell my stuff and give me the money. Oh yes, and he would still be able to date other people. Yes, I laughed in his face. And told him not to call me at the end of the month when he doesn't have a place to live except his van. And he also has an old Mercedes convertible. Which he thinks makes him appear rich.
Anyway, yes, I really must be broken. Because I keep being nice to nutty people who I shouldn't even be talking to. Except to say "Goodbye". He sent me a text yesterday trying to explain how he could be a positive influence on me. He came over this morning to get his wallet, which for the 10th time he left in my car Thursday night. And he hadn't noticed it missing. Probably because there was no money in it......
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
