HP,

Respond with whatever logistics work for you and S11, no more, no less. The time for worrying "how to respond" are over.

Stop giving your drama queen wife so much valuable real estate in your brain.

Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)