Do you want to save your M? Do not file if you do. Do not move out. You need to work hard on those 180s and change the way you interact with W.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
