I guess it went as good as could be expected. Only a couple things W wanted that I didn't agree with. SIL definitely made it clear that she was not the one to negotiate, which I was fine with.
Her and I went through a couple closets to box W's stuff. At one point I asked her if W would want something and she said, "its your call, if she can't get the courage to do this herself" (I definitely censored that comment)
Anyway, SIL is definitely not agreeing with W, we didn't talk about the R at all really. She just said she is doing whatever she can to help us out. Funny thing is, there's two other friends of ours that W took advantage of that said the same thing at first. She said I look like I'm doing good, but she can tell its tough for me. She pointed at me referring to the weight I had lost.
They only thing I said was "Well, this is her decision, so I need move on right now." I did say that I wish that W would have more communication with me about kids, house, property, etc. since we only talk 30 minutes a week.
When she was saying goodbye, I could tell we both were at the point we were going to lose it and had a hug, a 'talk to you later' and then she rushed out the door. Good thing because about 2 minutes later, I cracked. Feeling better now, but definitely it hit me again about what it going on.
Well, next step is to get the furniture she wants out. Of course W scheduled something already when I'm at work (along with an appraiser) even though we have an agreement that we would not enter the other person's residence. I guess we can talk about that on Tuesday during counseling (mediation.) So much for written agreements right now.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
