Angry WAH blames me for everything.......

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I don't understand how someone can not be opposed to having a reconciliation, but doesn't want to commit to actually working on the marriage? But then wants to have conversations to see what happens and go from there? And for the record, I didn't even want to talk about the damn R. It just freaking snowballed and sucked both of us into it.

.....in other words, convo with H didn't go well. I suck at DBing. We both suck at communication. We can't break the cycle of our communication problems that we have when there's conflict.

So he wants us to ask our IC's individually how we should handle breaking the cycle. That would probably require us to have C. Together. Which would constitute working on the R. Which is what H doesn't want to do, right now.

*throws confetti in the air*

So frustrated right now. More to post later but I'm off to my company work party where I gave to put on a happy face. But damn it, I'll at least look good.