Little & Cadet, since you two are suggesting that I am co-dependent and in an unhealthy relationship, are you also suggesting that maybe I shouldn't want to get back with my H? How should I change the way I'm doing things to break this pattern?
I am not suggesting that, it is for you to decide. Even if you are to find a new relationship your co-dependecy wont stop. Changing is not something I can simply describe. Read the book Co-dependent no more.(Melodie Beattie)
