Thanks, yeah it should be interesting. SIL texted me this morning and obviously made an attempt to try and make this as smooth as possible. Asking when the best time was to stop over and all. Much different than email from W to me that had it listed in pretty much legal date, year, time, etc.
So I called SIL back with a PMA and said I was flexible anytime and asked a few questions like are we just going through stuff or moving it, etc. She also said she wasn't sure, she just found out yesterday that this is happening.
Then we texted back and forth and already smoothed stuff over about the value of the stuff in the H. Knowing SIL, I think I can tell that she's annoyed to be doing this, she texted "So, my purpose is to go through the list and see if you to agree to her assessment of value of items" Anyway, don't want to mind-read her, I already know where she stands.
How this all started when W and I talked, W wanted half the $$, so I said we needed to assign value to everything before she would take it to keep track. I texted SIL, that I don't care about the value, just it seemed as if W did based on what she sent me. SIL said SIL knows what W wants and value doesn't need to be assessed then. I'll need W to send me an email directly at some point on that to cover my behind. Anyway, typical thing in all of this, lack of communication. W refuses to talk w/me outside of mediation. I'm trying to walk the careful line of being strong and confident in this almost exclusively through email communication. I've always said email is a horrible communication tool as you can read text with a context of any emotion that you feel at the time. That part makes it harder
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M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
