I thought everything was okay...(Part 2)

[Vanilla]

MCS,

I am not as negative about SIL as Mozza is. I do agree be careful, but is your chance to shine.

I am going to paint this wall lime green with purple dots, what do you think SIL?

If I am going to refresh the bedroom/kitchen/hallway what would you and BIL suggest? Can I talk to you about new drapes. I value your opinion and BIL on ........"
Guaranteed you wiill get some practical help AND present PMA with an opportunity to do more.

"I would like to thank you and BIL for your help in this, can we arrange lunch with (kids) if any?"
Etc

An 8 Sandi guidelines interaction, I have started measuring my interaction in Sandi guideline points!
Vanilla