Thank you everyone for your support. I didn't think of the detective's pain when I chose my name. Another way things are working out lke they're supposed to it seems.

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When I came downstairs, I warmly said good morning to S11. W was sitting on the couch right next to him. She didn't say anything so I didn't say anything to her. I could have said "good morning" like I was saying It to all in the room. W made a show of talking to S11 about her application for a rental car. I told s11 I'd be back to take him to practice and left. I showed good PMA was upbeat cool and moved smoothly. I didnt say one word to her though. It was another role reversal.

I'm not going to let my dislike for her ruin my PMA. I'm going to remember to feel empathy for her. That I'm not perfect either. That punishing her does not help anything. That I can act now lke I'm feeling good about moving on and that has nothing to do with her. I can do that.


Me: 44
W: 45
S: 11
Married: 15
Together: 18
BD: 9/29/2014
OM discovered: 10/16/2014
I left her behind: 12/14/2014