Thoughts and prayers are with you HP. Just caught up on your situation.

Seems like you are making good progress and you are right, you can do this!

Stay strong

Me-48,W-51
M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork