She's resentful of me because I didn't shut down my parents better. Most of the time it's about how she feels. She's afraid she'll never regain her attraction to me. She wants no part of my family, etc. She mostly kept it to core issues and not OM. That I can handle. There was one time she got disrespectful. Apparently when she was cutting OM off he suggested that they start a PA and just get together when he's in town. She said no, that she was only interested in a real legitimate R. No cheating. She said to me at one point last night she was now considering taking him up on the offer so she could at least have a sex life again, since right now she doesn't see how she could have one with me. I just told her open marriages don't work. It's all or nothing. If she wants to do that, there's the door. She backed off.

As if she's going to tear up her family just so she can have sex every couple of months when he drops into town. When I challenge her on that she just says what she's feeling, not what she's going to do.

Later after she regained her senses she told me she loved me, apologized again to me for all this mess and asked me if the pain will ever go away.

Last edited by Rzrback; 12/13/14 12:40 PM.
Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

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