hahaha! Yes pilot that was my secret veiled message to you. Come by my cubicle later to talk...

I wrote another post a few days ago but it seems to not have posted.

Thanks Little and Ganb8te, I've decided of course not to respond.

But it has made me think about when/if he does contact me again. I want to tell him something like "I hate you. You are an immature, cheating, lying little sh!t and I don't want to be friends or part of your harem!" But...

If my goal is to reunite with him that is probably not the best tactic. I suppose I need to work on my polite, friendly, mysterious persona. Looking at success stories on here there are mainly two camps, no? 1. set boundaries, detach and GAL, see if they wake up and come back or 2. be friendly and wait out their crisis until they see you are the better option.

Have a good weekend all!
Hugs, Lisa