Sadly W is in a full tailspin but it isn't going to help you to keep on looking for changes in her so soon. This is going to take a long long time to unfold.
You have a lot of space and time for you and your wonderful children. Time to apply Sandi guidelines, time to GAL, time to PMA. Time to recover, grow and get stronger.
I am still concerned that you say too much, appease. I really believe that you are not detached yet, you have not let go of the rope. Jim drop the rope examine detachment. It's a basic for DB survival and my dear friend you are still not dropping the rope!
Take the advice, stop engaging with W whilst she is in this phase. Be strong, it's hard but it will really help you. It's no good guessing or mind reading. Stop.
Jim, we want to see you achieve your goals. Peace Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/13/1401:45 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
