Thanks, you're right. I guess I did have some expectations that W would have started to deal with some of the things she needs to deal with for working her emotional issues. The avoidance of everything in her old life is wearing on me. That combined with this whole feeling unsafe with me is starting to affect me. A friend of mine keeps explaining it as the fact that she is threatened by me. Although it's not how I think of threatening. She says that W is confused and probably struggling. When I act as if I'm moving on, its causing just the reaction that is needed for DB. I guess the word unsafe is what was getting to me, but really it's probably that I'm going to be just fine when she is feeling she is struggling, IDK.
Also, thanks for the 2x4 for what my should be mood in it. Since I had someone that I sort of trust and was seemingly seeing things the way I see it in the R, I probably would have pushed the DB aside because it wasn't directly with the W. That would have been a bad move.
Last edited by MCS; 12/13/1412:59 AM.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
