I've been dancing that line a lot lately Starsky, and my feelings are in line with yours. I Haven't openly exposed the A, but those who ask the "do you think there is somebody else" or "why did she really leave" do not get less than the truth from me, although I do keep it to the point and don't expose the full details.

I've been all warm and fuzzy with all in W's family. I'm sure she is burning inside. She recently visited the grandmother quoted above, after the affair, and was saying she was annoyed that her Gram was raving about how amazing I am to all her friends in front of W - and I wasn't even there!

Intel shows she is stalking OM and his GF A LOT lately. I have a feeling her family won't be so accepting of OM if he ever does make it into the family... Especially if I take up the offers from her family to drop in from time to time.


UpperCut
Me: 28 W: 25
Married: 4 yrs Together: 7 yrs
Dday: 9/14 (W ends affair & comes home)
S: 12/14 (W restarted affair 1/15; moved near OM 2/15)
No kids