Sorry I've been MIA for a while as I just 'kissed' a proposal packet and hit the send button.
It will take a while for WAW to come to certain conclusions about her worldview and realize that 'yeah, those thought patterns aren't working for me any more'. It all boils down to this: do I want to be right or do I want to be happy?
As Starsky stated in previous posts, it will take many fits and starts for W to get the XOM out of her system. Right now, her windshield is foggy and she can barely see out of it. That haze is called resentments and XOM drug withdrawal. A bunch of crap for her to sort out and make sense out of them.
All of this is not a linear process. Probably will be filled with zigs and zags.
You are doing really good with being patient with this process while standing in your own truth.
