So wife's good mood continued this evening but at the same time no niceness toward me (no goodnight, keeping away from me, getting up to close her door when I cane upstairs to go in my room). All indications that her good mood is enduced by something else. I suspect whoever she was with on Tuesday and the changed destination for her night out tomorrow.

3 months in and she seems more distant than ever. And I'm no less heartbroken by it even if im more in control of my mood around her.

Its disappointing that a life with me is so horrendous a prospect.


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress