SD, please, relax. It only seems like it would be the end of the world if it is the worst performance of your life. It can do two things for you, one you got can empathize with wife. You want, you are sure you want but something misfires, ugh, damn! Get my drift, she feels this way I bet you. Then if you 'fess up that this is what's going on it is just possible that she may be willing to help you relax, hmmm? On another note check on D16, sounds like a hidden agenda at work. She may be enjoying the freedom she gets because you and W are distracted. Trust me on this she is old enough to let you know she needed to get a card and to put it on you like that shows she is up to something. She laid a whole bag of guilt on you and you and W missed the cue to unite on this one. I think.
