Sorry, Hrdtims. I know that must sting. Time to let her go (this does NOT mean "give up"). No more affection, no more holding, no more foot rubs, no more PURSUIT.
This is her journey . . . let her walk it. It's terribly hard for us men when we KNOW they are making a mistake, but you have to HONOR her request even if you don't AGREE with it.
