SD,

We all have "off" days, don't sweat it. You may come back stronger than ever. No matter what is exercised, it does need a rest now and again. Could be a bit of undigested beef, oh, sorry, no Scrooge appropriate here....but you do reside in GB, so had to throw that in...

Let's face it, life has been very stressful for you lately.. Trying to get a M to turn around is very difficult anf stressful work. You are on a tightrope without alot of soft places to fall. Your energy has been redirected to your , not just your love toy, so of course things may flag a bit now and again. Medication can have a huge effect on your libido, too...I agree with the performance anxiety diaganosis, happens to everyone one in awhile..stress is most often the culprit.

Cut yourself some slack, and let us know when things are looking up again...Curious minds are curious you know....

Johanna