On the 5th, I took off my wedding band after reading some posts. Her's is already off. I took mine off bc it shows that I am not holding on (basically arguing with her), and I don't think keeping it on helps me get where I want to go.
I was thinking about doing that after Christmas. Of course I like your reasoning better than mine. H took his off a couple of years ago because he broke his finger. My big concern is my kids, they still don't know this is going on. Although, I'm sure they know something isn't right.
Good post, you sound like you are doing really well with DBing!
Last edited by lost18; 12/12/1407:50 PM.
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since