Wife having emotional affair part 4

[3kids]

Sorry Sandi just seen your post. I totally understand what you are saying. I questioned that myself. I thought by those comments I was keeping the road paved smooth. Not putting up road blocks. By letting her see that she is welcome to join her family as long as OM is out of the picture. Right now I think that is what she thinking of having all the benefits at my home and no attraction with me. I'm confused on this part. Please explain more. Do I just not mention it and brush it off every time she brings it up.