Wife having emotional affair part 4

[3kids]

So last night I didn't end up bowling on league. But I still went up there and seen all the guys. Ended up staying up there and bowled one game for money and won. Extra cash sweet! Got a call from her but I didn't answer because I was having fun. She actually left a message to give her a call. I got home to late to call, so this morning I sent a text message asking what's up. She called me and told me that the youngest and the daughter where going to stay home again. Said they where up all night puking and coughing. I let her know what I had been doing that was working with them. She said she was calling last night to see if my mom could watch them today so she could go to work. But she just decided that she is going to stay home with them. She commented on how it was nice they came up and snuggled in her bed with her and joked that she is going to get sick now. She complained about the oldest being rude and disrespectful to her(typical teenage boy). We joked about it being his stage and can't get through it fast enough. She asked if I could help her out. She has a cookie exchange with her grandma on Saturday at the same time as the oldest basketball practice. She asked if I could pick him up and she would just grab him when her and the other two are done. (My daughter loves this every year). So I said sure not a problem. It doesn't interfear with my plans. She said thank you and we said goodbye.

The questions I have and probably have asked these a couple of times. Should I decline on this stuff. Let her figure it out. Should I try to stop this carrousel. When OM is in town she doesn't contact me as much. But when he is gone she calls and text more. I don't want to be mean or go dark. It this how the situations work or the process of them wanting what's right. I know the db process is to work on me. And I'm still working on that. But what is the best coarse of action in my phase of situation. Do I keep being less available except with the kids. Keeping convo light hearted and friendly. Answering some calls and texts. Not letting her cake eat.

Thanks as always!
P.s I do have a great weekend planned. Kind of excited.