When you are focusing on you W you are wasting energy and pushing her away.
I understand the pull to know what she is doing, who with and all of that. I do understand. That said everything you do to know, find out, will not only waste your energy, but it will hurt you deeply. It will alter your ability to move forward and fu@k with you.
There is nothing you can do about it that would not make it worse. Find a way to change your focus, it will consume you. If you told your W about her friend it would fall not on deaf ears, yet the only thing she would hear would be you are monitoring her. ------------------------------------------------------------- What do you want to change about you? Why?
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
