Me again - sorry to be so chatty this morning, but I've a lot on my mind.
My WAW said at the beginning of this nightmare she wanted me to "fight for my marriage". That is confusing - what does that even mean?
1. Does it mean - going to MC?
2. Does it mean - working on me? I think this is really what it means. If so, this translates into being more present with my kids, living more in the present and acknowledging the good things in my life, being more emotionally available (this is hard for me - wtf does this really mean? I am guessing listening and validating her each time we interact).
How do I know she even knows I am working on me unless I tell her? She has moved out, how does she see/know of any changes?
3. Does it mean - going dark?
If I could get some clear examples of what "working on my marriage" really means, that would be helpful.
