My grandparents and W's know about our S now. Her grandfather emailed me this morning offering his condolences and saying I'm welcome in their home anytime regardless of the outcome.

My grandfather called me and shared some sound advice, and recommended a book, which seems to be in line with DB principles. He inquired about the "why" and I acknowledged it involved someone else.

The more public this all becomes, and seeing W "not" change her attitude, I feel that D is more inevitable. Maybe this is the point where she breaks, or maybe it will cement her feelings, time will tell I guess.

Thanks all for the insight on detachment vs letting go. Very enlightening.

Last edited by Cristy; 12/18/14 08:38 PM. Reason: per forum agreement, do not mention other books or authors
UpperCut
Me: 28 W: 25
Married: 4 yrs Together: 7 yrs
Dday: 9/14 (W ends affair & comes home)
S: 12/14 (W restarted affair 1/15; moved near OM 2/15)
No kids