Tim, I just wish I (and everyone on this forum) were that HAPPY. On holiday in Orlando, Florida (it’s full of Brits in summer) a couple of years back I was in the queue about 45 minutes for a water park ride. Next to us was a couple. He was 50's she 40's. He had his arms around her the whole time and was caressing her tummy. She was snuzzling him and stroking his arms. It’s impossible being in our position not to marvel at what a wonderful life some people seem to have! I’d say it is quite rare though that you see such obvious HD/HD behaviour. I have a feeling that mostly in an R where couples start off HD/HD eventually one partner goes LD. SD