I am also really glad that your kids were not there for the yelling, especially your daughter. Being 14 is tough enough to deal with, and you being the reasonable and calming force is crucial for all of the kids. You keep that up, for them... for you too, but right now for them. They will deal with relationship issues in their future's and you are role modeling the strength that we all need to be able to appropriately deal with these issues.
