Oh, just to add, whilst talking to W, it was mentioned how the kids go back to her place after being with me that they seem a little "sullen", and asked if I pressure them for any info, or say anything to them about R/M.. I said no (which is the truth), but I mentioned to her that they say to me how much they want us together.. I have read elsewhere on here that kids don't say much in that respect to WAS, but will to LBS..
I don't push the point with them as they aren't pawns.. I don't want to give them false hope or shootdown either way, so I just answer what they have to say as middle line as I can..
Anyway, today when me and W were talking, she mentioned how it is meant to be a 29 degree day on Sunday where we are (warm for us) and that I should take the kids to the beach whilst I have them whilst she xmas shops (my weekend off, but I have them on Sundays nights every week)..
FTW, my eldest boy pipes up "You should come with dad and us too mum".. Not a real big thing, but it was just the timing of the comment (he hadn't heard what we were talking about beforehand).. The look on her face was priceless, and I couldn't help but let out an "I told you"!!..
Me:35 W:31 S6 + S9 T: 10 years M: 7 years BD: 7/2014 S: 8/2014 W has new BF: 12/2014 Still fighting the good fight!!..