I just can't see being detached to the point where you're not a sensitive, hurting, emotional pile of jelly, yet still having those feelings of ATTACHMENT present.
I couldn't. When I detached it involved the good and the bad. I thinks that's the only way it can be done.
Can you dettatch fully? Not allow what he has put you through come out as anger toward him in the form of barbs or comments?
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