Sunday 10:30pm. Amazing. After enduring considerable scorn over my psychobabble talk I have managed to get W interested in LLs. I told her that children have LLs and you can improve their behaviour by tapping into their primary LL. During a conversation with W and D16, D16 told me she doesn't like my "feminine" attitude of going round telling everyone how wonderful they are (I am testing their Words of Affirmation LLs) but we established that she does like me waiting on her hand and foot while she is ill, bringing her glasses of water, arranging her pillows and other Acts of Service. We then had a discussion about how badly her boyfriend had treated her while she was in hospital. He did not visit, send flowers or a card, phone her or text her - no Gifts! W's LLs are still a mystery to me. I have done a lot of acts of service this weekind such as ironing, clearing up, cooking, hoovering and making many cups of tea and coffee. Nothing seems to have much affect. I tried some quality time talking about football (soccer to you) which is usually a good subject to get her talking - but her team lost today. At one point in the day she told me that she quite likes Physical Touch (cuddles particularly) which I find very encouraging but I am being patient about the sex and will wait until next Friday because I don't want her to feel pressured. I need to explore her Receiving Gifts LL but this is the one I am least good at and am not sure what to do. SD
