Mozza (6) + List of success stories

[Mozza]

Wonka, sandi2, 25yearsmlc, T0324 - Wow, thanks for the vet intervention!

Have you started back to square one? You are second guessing yourself, pursuing her, looking for the magic formula, etc.

Why?

Wait, I'm not pursuing much. I kissed W on the cheeks when she leaned in, the first time we saw each other in 2 weeks. Other than that, it was all business. I've even reduced the email contacts to a bare minimum in the last week or two, cutting on the banter. I go back and forth because my W felt I was distant in the couple, so it had been suggested that I use these exchanges to show her my changes.

W's heard you once. She knows by your words and actions that you don't want a D. I think in some cases it is good to physically separate because it allows for contrasts between the LBS and their no-so fun fairytale with the OP to come into sharper focus for the WAS.

OK, I won't remind her. I don't mind anyway: she's getting more involved with this OM, who's moving in in January. I don't see anything to do than see if it runs its course while I work on myself.

Speaking of, I had a great business trip this week. I saw three friends who boosted my PMA, I felt better and cried less than usual, and I bought a ton of new clothes. I'm back home and today's a bit of a difficult day because it's the 3-month 'anniversary" of BD, but other than that, I'm biding my time. My daily 7-minute workout is doing wonders by the way. Everything feels easier, like gravity is reduced. It feels great.